The Poser

It is rare and refreshing to walk with someone who has learned to LoVE:LiVE in such a way his/her life and relationships take on increasing qualities of eternity. Let me tell you what is on my heart. I have had a few conversations when someone posed some really very disruptive questions to me that have …

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[iRD] Attitudes Towards Relationships And Finding Your Core Purpose In Life

This writ is something I just wrote off the top of my head last night. It is kind of weird and rough around the edges, but I thought you would think it is interesting and take some good value out of it. The main theme is moving past the crap in your life by finding …

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Frustrated? “What’s Wrong With This Person?”

When you inevitably get frustrated with someone today, remember this line from Anthony de Mello: “The question to ask is not, ‘What’s wrong with this person?’ but ‘What does this irritation tell me about myself?'” This question —this pause and then reversal— is an essential element. It goes back to Epictetus who said that we …

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How To Judge Yourself

How should you judge yourself? How should you judge how you are doing? Most people, not surprisingly, fall into the trap set by the MSM. (And when I say “MSM”, I’m not referring to anything political whatsoever. I’m more referring to TV, Hollywood, and major magazines.) If we went by the mental fluff they feed the masses with, then we would …

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