Frustrated? “What’s Wrong With This Person?”

When you inevitably get frustrated with someone today, remember this line from Anthony de Mello: “The question to ask is not, ‘What’s wrong with this person?’ but ‘What does this irritation tell me about myself?'” This question —this pause and then reversal— is an essential element. It goes back to Epictetus who said that we …

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“Relationship”

Because truth is, I am NOT looking for people to serve nor to do business with (coach/consult/teach). Others will accept anyone into their (coaching/mastermind) group so long as they can accommodate them and get paid whatever price was advertised. They will make it seem like the application process is thorough so they can really see if “we’re a …

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The Poser

It is rare and refreshing to walk with someone who has learned to LoVE:LiVE in such a way his/her life and relationships take on increasing qualities of eternity. Let me tell you what is on my heart. I have had a few conversations when someone posed some really very disruptive questions to me that have …

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Die To Self

when we die to self, we give life to others. relationships rise and fall based on each person’s willingness or unwillingness to die to self. relationships rise when a person is selfless. relationships fall when a person is selfish. no one modeled this better than Jesus. Jesus is the standard by which all selfless behavior …

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